Capture Your Grief Day 25 - Say it Out Loud

Say It Out Loud - I have four children! I get uncomfortable telling people I have 4 because then it sometimes turns into a lot of questions and sad looks. Sometimes I feel more uncomfortable for the person asking.

Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep

When you lose someone dear to you, you grab at things to hold on to that will remind you of that special person. It is no different when losing a baby. Your hospital should give you pictures, footprints, blankets or any other donated items that were used on your little angel.

But, instead of having Polaroids of your infant you can have a photographer volunteer to take pictures of your baby either while the baby is either passing or born still. The program is called "Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep". I think it is a really special way to remember your baby. Some people, I am sure, would think it is morbid or cruel, but I think it helps to have something to look at & know that your baby was real & here.

I found a blog of a local photographer who is a part of this wonderful program if you or anyone you know may need this service. Or maybe you are a photographer who would like to volunteer, there is a link you can click on to sign up.